What can love endure? Lies make family by making the loved one vulnerable

This article aims to describe how the love of a poor and pregnant woman, Célia, was built and sustained for Tonico, a poor man, who she was not sure if he was a rapist but is the father of her son. Tonico met Célia in a “samba” in the Rio de Janeiro, while he was serving time in a semi-open prison....

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Autor principal: Rangel, Everton
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Publicado: Instituto de Ciencias Antropológicas, Facultad de Filosofía y Letras, UBA 2024
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topic Love
Vulnerability
Lies
Family and prison
Amor
Vulnerabilidad
Mentiras
Familia y prisión
Amor
Vulnerabilidade
Mentira
Família e prisão
spellingShingle Love
Vulnerability
Lies
Family and prison
Amor
Vulnerabilidad
Mentiras
Familia y prisión
Amor
Vulnerabilidade
Mentira
Família e prisão
Rangel, Everton
What can love endure? Lies make family by making the loved one vulnerable
topic_facet Love
Vulnerability
Lies
Family and prison
Amor
Vulnerabilidad
Mentiras
Familia y prisión
Amor
Vulnerabilidade
Mentira
Família e prisão
description This article aims to describe how the love of a poor and pregnant woman, Célia, was built and sustained for Tonico, a poor man, who she was not sure if he was a rapist but is the father of her son. Tonico met Célia in a “samba” in the Rio de Janeiro, while he was serving time in a semi-open prison. And it was about the crime he allegedly committed that he lied to her the most. Aiming to explain that lying is directly related to the production of the loving bond, I will first discuss some notions of love and then mobilize the one that seems closest to my data to discuss the notion of vulnerability, as well as that of lying and its effects. I describe the subjective costs of trying to love and believe in a fiancé who seems to lie all the time, aiming to suggest that love and lying are linked to the production of vulnerability. I argue that there is a link between love, lies and vulnerability, which, incited and marked by prison, produces a family in a specific way.
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spelling I28-R145-14224_oai2025-11-17 Rangel, Everton 2024-07-04 This article aims to describe how the love of a poor and pregnant woman, Célia, was built and sustained for Tonico, a poor man, who she was not sure if he was a rapist but is the father of her son. Tonico met Célia in a “samba” in the Rio de Janeiro, while he was serving time in a semi-open prison. And it was about the crime he allegedly committed that he lied to her the most. Aiming to explain that lying is directly related to the production of the loving bond, I will first discuss some notions of love and then mobilize the one that seems closest to my data to discuss the notion of vulnerability, as well as that of lying and its effects. I describe the subjective costs of trying to love and believe in a fiancé who seems to lie all the time, aiming to suggest that love and lying are linked to the production of vulnerability. I argue that there is a link between love, lies and vulnerability, which, incited and marked by prison, produces a family in a specific way. Este artículo tiene como objetivo describir cómo se construyó y sostuvo el amor de una mujer pobre y embarazada, Célia, por un hombre, Tonico, también pobre, de quien ella no estaba segura si era o no un violador y es el padre de su hijo. Tonico conoció a Célia en un “samba” en Río de Janeiro, mientras cumplía condena en una prisión semiabierta, y fue precisamente sobre el crimen que supuestamente cometió que más le mintió. Con el objetivo de explicar que las mentiras estan directamente relacionadas con la producción del vínculo amoroso, primero discutiré algunas nociones de amor y luego movilizaré la que me parezca más cercana a mis datos para discutir la noción de vulnerabilidad, así como la de mentira y sus efectos. Describo los costos subjetivos de intentar amar y creer en un novio que parece mentir todo el tiempo, con el objetivo de sugerir que el amor y la mentira están vinculados a la producción de vulnerabilidad. Sostengo que existe un vínculo entre el amor, la mentira y la vulnerabilidad, que, incitada y marcada por la prisión, produce una familia de manera específica. Este artigo tem como objetivo descrever de que maneira foi erguido e sustentado o amor de uma mulher pobre e grávida, Célia, por um homem, Tonico, também pobre, que ela não tinha certeza se era ou não um estuprador e é o pai do seu filho. Tonico conheceu Célia em um pagode no centro do Rio de Janeiro, enquanto cumpria pena em um presídio semiaberto, e era justamente sobre o crime que teria cometido que ele mais mentia para ela. Visando explicitar que a mentira está diretamente relacionada à produção do laço amoroso, primeiro discorrerei sobre algumas noções de amor e, em seguida, mobilizarei aquela que me parece mais próxima aos meus dados para discutir a noção de vulnerabilidade, bem como a de mentira e seus efeitos. Descrevo os custos subjetivos de tentar amar e crer em um noivo que parece mentir o tempo todo, visando sugerir que o amor e a mentira se vinculam à produção de vulnerabilidade. Defendo que existe um nexo entre amor, mentira e vulnerabilidade, que incitado e marcado pela prisão, produz família de forma específica. application/pdf text/html https://revistascientificas.filo.uba.ar/index.php/runa/article/view/14224 10.34096/runa.v45i2.14224 por Instituto de Ciencias Antropológicas, Facultad de Filosofía y Letras, UBA https://revistascientificas.filo.uba.ar/index.php/runa/article/view/14224/13080 https://revistascientificas.filo.uba.ar/index.php/runa/article/view/14224/13229 Derechos de autor 2024 Everton Rangel RUNA, archivo para las ciencias del hombre; Vol. 45 No. 2 (2024): Contemporary regime of sexuality: violence, consent and vulnerability; 115-174 RUNA, archivo para las ciencias del hombre; Vol. 45 Núm. 2 (2024): Régimen contemporáneo de la sexualidad: violencia, consentimiento y vulnerabilidad; 115-174 RUNA, archivo para las ciencias del hombre; v. 45 n. 2 (2024): Regimes contemporâneos de sexualidade: violência, consentimento e vulnerabilidade ; 115-174 1851-9628 0325-1217 Love Vulnerability Lies Family and prison Amor Vulnerabilidad Mentiras Familia y prisión Amor Vulnerabilidade Mentira Família e prisão What can love endure? Lies make family by making the loved one vulnerable ¿Qué puede soportar el amor? Mentiras producen família volviendo vulnerable al ser amado O que o amor pode suportar? : Mentiras fazem família vulnerabilizando a pessoa amada info:eu-repo/semantics/article info:eu-repo/semantics/publishedVersion Artículo enviado a un dossier temático https://repositoriouba.sisbi.uba.ar/gsdl/cgi-bin/library.cgi?a=d&c=runa&d=14224_oai